Nameless Ones

Nameless ones? I came up w/ this one because of folks pretending to be someone else, even me, and it was rather bothersome. Then, there was the idea that I knew I liked someone, but didn't tell them, like a secret admirer, but she didn't even know I admired her? Oh well, this column eventually came about for some odd reason?

Let's get into secret admirers a li'l bit. Let's say you like someone, but are really shy about approaching them. So, to send them a poem, or a flower, or rose, or whatever under the name of "secret admirer" is nothing to be ashamed about. The only thing is, is that just be truthful later on. Expose yourself and let them know who was sending them stuff. Let them know that you think they are worth all the admiration you give them. Once that is done, it's up to them to accept you or not. If they don't accept you, you at least showed them how you felt, and that's all you could do. Sure, it may have taken longer then just outright coming out and saying it, but the anticipation of finding out made it that much more interesting.

More on some anonymous haters. Let's get into what motivates them. They may not like you because you aced them out on someone they liked? You may have outshined them in some event or area that they felt they shined in? You may have openly expressed your opinion on something and instead of openly expressing their opinion about your opinion, they choose to hide their identity. Thus, showing they aren't on your level. It's like getting phone calls of someone quickly saying some obscene words or phrases than hanging up right after. How stupid is that? I mean, they might not even be talking to who they want to say all that to and be saying things to the wrong person. Just dumb stuff, I'd say. The point is, is that they don't like the fact that you are better than they are in some way, and in to prove how shallow they are, they go and do something idiotic without leaving their mark on it. Not really logical, but somehow in their twisted worlds, it's justifiable.

Anonymous donators? Again, something that could be good. All you have to know about them is that they believe enough in you to donate money, clothes, information, or something that benefits you. Why they'd not want you know who it was that did it is beyond me, but then again it's always welcomed. If you don't want to accept their donation, then don't. You really don't know who you're denying and that might be a way of finding out who donated what. This type of being anonymous isn't so bad, but might backfire. I guess all cases of being anonymous could backfire in one way or another.

Now what is my take on this whole anonymous subject? I'll prefer to stay anonymous on that one......

Posted on 04 Jun 2006 by Windreamer